Why Men Love Bitches?

I borrowed a book from my friend entitled "Why Men Love Bitches?". I am intrigued because of the good feed backs I heard from those who already read it. It was consists of 264 pages and I was able to finish reading it for two days. Yeah, I need to rush cause there's another friend next in line. The author of this bestseller book is Sherry Argov. While reading it, I learned so much about love, getting in a relationship and of course being a strong woman. The term "bitch" in this book is opposite of its original meaning. It is not about a creepy, gothic girl who dwells a lot in negative and wrong doings and is like the villain in a movie. The word "bitch" is define in this book as someone who have total control of herself, very independent, knows how to use her mind before her heart and of course someone who will not let others turn her down especially in a crucial situation. They say when a woman meets a man she already fall for him. In this book, it reverses the idea that it should be the guy who needs to do the chase. You're role as a woman is to let the fire on and make the man feel interested to you until he is caught up in the situation. The book also defines the difference between a "nice girl" to a "bitch". The nice girl will do everything to get the attention of the person she loves leaving nothing to herself so at the end when she did not get the satisfaction she is dreaming for she tends to lose her mind and the appetite to continue living a normal life. It will take years for her to recover and heal the wounds. So as to a bitch she manages to stand on her own and makes sure she is not totally attach to the man he loves. She still have her life and continue doing her interests while leaving the man of her life the thought of being independent. As the book says, guys love challenges. They hate it when the girl always do the talking and cannot decide on their own. The bitch here always believe in her own opinion. There were also a lot of guides when it comes to dating, getting in a relationship and choosing the guy you want to be with forever. It seems like the author of the book had wide experiences when it comes to love and being in a relationship for she was able to present good points and ideas very well. I admire her sincerity and for opening the fact that girls is not just a person designed to stay at home and do all the chores for the perfect girl also have a life and knows how to enjoy even she is already committed.

When I read the book, I concluded that I was the "nice girl". I belonged to the category of those who will do stupid things to get the attention of the guy she likes. I admit, I did that before and it did not work. And I learned from that experience. The chasing and the wrong moves definitely is not a good idea. I sucked when it comes to this matter. But now, I don't want to be the nice girl anymore. Yeah, being nice is still needed but it depends in a situation. I'm trying to be the bitch not because I read it in the book but because I have to. I need to get a hold of myself having total control of it. In the past, I let others control and dictate realizing I am like their puppet. Guys will always be guys. So I have to learn how to adapt to them in a manly manner using my confidence and being myself. The more I try to be myself, the more they will accept me. I made a lot of mistakes before and this is the perfect time to change and straighten things out so by the time the next guy will come I am more prepare and cool about it. I am not yet a bitch now by heart but soon to be one.