More than friends. Less than lovers. ????

I checked this website na super in demand ngayon because it allows you to vent out your heartaches, love problems and good love stories. I got curious so I browsed the site. Yung website is wotwentwrong.com. Grabe ang daming posts and different articles about love and relationships. Pero one article caught my attention. Yung "more than friends, less than lovers". I got this weird heartbeat when I sawthis article. But to my surprise, when I'm about to read it, the connection got fired up. And so I decided to make my own.

Ang hirap i-define ng phrase na ito. Very confusing and at the same time kinda depressing. I don't know if I got hit by this article personally or I just wanna express my opinion. Okay, let me start. A guy and a girl seems to be very close. They shared each others stuff. They go out together. They talk a lot. They with each other everyday. They share plans about their future. They have other friends din naman. Pero pag sila na ang magkasama, everyone thought na may something na iba sa kanila. We don't know kung anu yun pero that has a deeper meaning. Cge just to set things straight, akala ng lahat "sila". What we don't get is katulad lang naman sila ng ibang friends nila. The fact na magkasama sila parati doesn't mean na "sila". Pwede din namang nasanay na lang sila na i-treat ang isa't-isa sa ganung paraan. Walang malisya sa kanila pero sa iba meron. May mga instances din na they were seen together having lunch/breakfast/dinner or even brunch. In our time, hindi ba pwedeng mag-lunchng sabay ang isang girl or boy? Were adult now. Can we think more mature? Buti nalang may mga katulad ni girl at boy na hindi affected whatever other people say. They may not know where they both stand but at least they're being cool with it. Smilin' around as if they don't care. But for others, kinda annoying cause hindi nila ma-sort out if si girl and boy were just acting innocent or dedma lang talaga. Whatever! Kelan nga ba nasasabing "more than friends, less than lovers"? Siguro pag yung actions nila and treatment with each other is lumagpas na sa boundary ng pagiging friends. Akala nila normal pa din ang lahat not knowing na they treating each other na pala so special that others see it differently pero sa kanila naging routinary nalang. We know naman how friends adore each other's companion pero pag sila na ang nag-express, parang may sarili silang mundo. They had their own language na sila lang ang nakakaintindi. Too much care and concern. Daig pa nila ang nasa isang relationship kung kumilos. Pero again,hindi "sila". Sobra-sobrang friendship pero pag love ang pinag-usapan they shut their mouth. Kasi hindi rin nila ma-explain. Kasknga hindi sila aware na ganun na pala. In the first place, they never discuss it and they don't mind. They're just okay with it. Wala naman silang nasasaktan. Yun ay kung wala talaga. Ewan natin. To cut the chase, hindi talaga "sila". They're not lovers. The guy's not courting the girl and the girl just sees the guy as her closest guy friend. Yun talaga. They can have a crush with anyone they want. The guy can flirt with other girls and it's fine with the girl. So as the girl can date another guy and the guy is just good with it. No commitment involve other than friendship. When one gets hurt, they're still back with each others arms then back to the same routine. That's how their life goes. We live in a crazy and complicated world and so they were. Better to leave them alone cause they're grown-ups. They know what their doing and where they headed. If one fall in-love with the other, it's always their choice. If they suffer, they'll handle that or so endure it. Hindi lahat ng nasa ganitong situation succeed, some got their luck, others just move on. Kung san man sila papunta or they just remain friends forever, they'll deal with it. Sinabi lang naman natin kung anu ang nakikita natin sa kanila. It's up to them. I really hate to explain this phrase kasi it's going nowhere but I'm glad I get to burst out my opinion.