Better off as......friends?

May mga bagay sa mundo na iniisip mo na makuha mo sana kahit imposible. Okay lang naman kasi libre lang mangarap. At may mga bagay din na kahit ilang beses mong i-wish, you'll never get it. Ba't ko toh nasabi? Cause there will be a point in your life that you will like someone hoping they will like you back. Out of 100%, almost 30% lang dun ang nagkakatotoo. Syempre may reason kung bakit at dapat alam na natin yun. In my life, I've reached to a point that I liked someone (iba ang "like" sa "love, kaya nakakalito) that I want to know him well and get along well with him. Nagkatototoo na yun. I became a good friend of that person and were both comfortable sharing a lot of things. Di ba "like" ko na yung person so hindi maiiwasan that I will aim na mag-step up kami to the next level. Aminado ko na-experience nyo din yan. But in that situation I am not the type who will do anything just to really get that person's attention all the time, yung tipong papansin. I am not like that. Hindi ko nga alam kung advantage or disadvantage yun sa part ko. I just enjoy every moment na kasama sya wishing na ma-realize yun. In our new generation, iba na ang definition nun. Pero I'll stick to the traditional. Yung tipong bahala na. When things went well, when you know that person so much and you're always together, bigla mong mare-realize na you're better be seen as friends and not more than that. Kasi pag friends kayo, no awkward moments. Pag friends kayo, mas malaki yung time na magkasama kayo. Tuksuhin man kayo ng ibang tao, you both know where you stand. Walang expectations. Less hurt yung mararamdaman mo. Why did I say that? Cause I find it more okay. Ang labo ng paliwanag ko db? At least kung kaibigan lang talaga ang tingin nya sayo hindi ka na mag-a-assume ng sobra. But syempre, at the back of our mind, we still had the hope that we will go up a notch higher. Yun lang, hindi pa siguro ito ang perfect time. Being off as friends now is better than trying to rush things and in the end, you'll both lose each other. For now, you're building a strong foundation through friendship and if the time comes that you're both ready, maybe it'll be easier for each person. It's not an act of selfishness. It's an act of waiting for the perfect moment. :)